HARD LIMITS
- Polyamorous: Sorry, I don't share.
- Feet: No licking or kissing. Mine or yours.
- Casual play: While I respect those who can, I'm old fashioned and love me a gentleman.
- Water sports: no thank you
- Knife/ needle/ blood play: Knives are for cutting/ prepping food for my partner, not me. Also, I like my red stuff kept inside of me.
- "Punishment": This isn't so much a limit as it just wouldn't work. I'd be misbehaving for the fun of it and pissing everyone off in the long run.
- Role Play: This is another one that just wouldn't work. I am entirely too upfront and a terrible liar, and equally terrible actor. But I am more than happy to be dressed up.
Soft Limits
- Public: An in person spanking / demonstration is really far off, but I really do want to try that... eventually.
- Humiliation: This one is a tight rope to be walked by a dom up for the challenge. As long as I am not asked to do something unsanitary or I don't feel demeaned or abused (i.e. licking a toilet bowl to clean it) I'm OK. But it's really something someone needs to get to know me first.
- Domestic Discipline: Oh, domestic discipline, I'll formulate my thoughts on you later. For the discipline aspect see punishment above.
it is always good to know where one stands and has limits.
ReplyDeleteI don't have role play as a limit, but it wouldn't work for me either, as far as being fun or arousing. I can't act or put on a performance. I'm incapable of not being myself. I also need what's happening and being said to be the truth or it's a turn-off for me.
ReplyDeleteSo very well put -- exactly!
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